Showing posts with label Gay Soul. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay Soul. Show all posts

Thursday, June 5, 2025

Sometimes . . .

. . . the most productive thing to do
is to pause.

A gentle pause.


See also the previous posts:
Always Remembr . . .
Luminous and Safe in Vulnerability
All the Time
Be Silent and Listen
Don’t Let Them Tame You
This Fleeting Journey
Sleep
On Your Shore

And at The Leveret's brother site, The Wild Reed, see:
A Sacred Pause
Cultivating Stillness
Today I Will Be Still

Image: Photographer unknown.

Tuesday, February 14, 2023

Opening the Door for Vulnerability and Flourishment


Yung Pueblo writes the following on what makes a relationship flourish.

Two people who seek to know, love and heal themselves as individuals will have harmony flow between them as a couple. Control creates tension, but trust gives them space to be their own person and opens the door for vulnerability. Calm communication, clear commitments and the willingness to support each other’s happiness makes the union strong.


Image: Subjects and photographer unknown.

See also the previous posts:
Luminous and Safe in Vulnerability
Divine Expressions
Face Your Darkness
Reaching Out
The Role of Reevaluation in the Gay Man’s Quest for Authenticity
Love
Mindful Lovemaking
A Source of Joy for the Beauty of Life Itself
Not a Weapon or a Mere Tool
Affirming Our Essential Goodness
The Gay Male Quest for Democratic, Mutual, Reciprocal Sex (Part 1)
The Gay Male Quest for Democratic, Mutual, Reciprocal Sex (Part 2)
Animal Energies

Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Phallic Mating

Notes the website of The Man2Man Alliance . . .

For tens of thousands of years, the phallus was seen not simply as something to insert in a hole to relieve sexual tension or to impregnate a woman, but was worshipped as the sacred symbol of male creative power.

Representations of the phallus were everywhere, in temples and festivals, on street corners and in front of houses, mounted on chariots in triumphal processions, even in the wind chimes or tintinnabula of Roman homes [left].

Men in the ancient world were surrounded by images of the sacred phallus because male sexual energy was revered and treated with awe. . . . It’s essential for contemporary men to recapture that sense of the phallus as sacred.

For if we understand that the phallus is sacred, we’ll realize that it’s not to be misused to spread disease or for empty, meaningless sex, but rather to connect physically with the creative power of another man in the awesome and cosmic act of phallic mating, the ultimate celebration of the male-male bond.

Source

See also the previous posts:
Phallus
The Divine Masculine Principle
Spiritual Phallicism
“Downtown Heaven”
Hard
Not a Weapon or a Mere Tool
Reaching Out
Body and Soul
Buddies
Setting Free
Sweet Release
Animal Energies
The Body: A Holy Place of Romp and Renewal

Images: Subjects and photographers unknown.

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

Spiritual Phallicism


Everything is contained within the Divine. Under that premise, Cock Worship is as valid a spiritual practice as any other. To me, Spiritual Phallicism is a lifestyle, an ongoing spell we consciously cast to dispel the false duality of matter versus spirit.

It is beautiful beyond words to witness the rebirth of this ancient tradition which liberates Men from the shackles of guilt, fear and shame and allows them to embrace their sexual nature as Brothers!

Source



See also the previous posts:
Phallus
Penis
Soft
Hard
Rethinking the “Normal” Penis
Not a Weapon or a Mere Tool
Reaching Out
The Body’s “Holy Hole”
A Source of Great Pleasure
Body and Soul
Buddies
“Downtown Heaven”
Setting Free
Sweet Release
Divine Expressions
The Divine Masculine Principle
Affirming Our Essential Goodness
Animal Energies
The Art of Dante Cirquero
The Body: A Holy Place of Romp and Renewal

Images: Subjects and photographers unknown.

Friday, January 1, 2021

For a New Day . . . and a New Year

Compassionate Creator,
Thank you for this new day,
its beauty, light, and possibilities.
Thank you for the chance to begin again,
free from the limitations of yesterday.

Today may I be reborn.
May I become more fully
a reflection of your radiance
and an embodiment
of your transforming love.

Give me strength and compassion.
Show me the light within myself and others.
Help me recognize the good that is available everywhere.

May I be, this day, an instrument
of love and healing.
Lead me in your ways
so that I may know life in abundance.
Ground me in a constant awareness of your presence
so that I may know and embody
your peace, wisdom, and courage.

Amen.


Adapted by Michael Bayly from a prayer by Marianne Williamson
in her book, Illuminata: Thoughts, Prayers, Rites of Passage (1994)


See also the previous posts:
For the New Year
Morning Light – January 1, 2013
Love
Morning Light XLV
Reevaluation in the Gay Man’s Quest for Authenticity
Day 1 of the “7 Days of Sweat Challenge”

And at The Leveret’s brother site, The Wild Reed, see:
A Blessing for the New Year (2020)
A Blessing for the New Year (2019)
Anew
Move Us, Loving God
Prayer of the Week – August 3, 2015
Prayer and the Experience of God in an Ever-Unfolding Universe
The Prayer Tree

Image: The Leveret.

Wednesday, January 15, 2020

Mistwalking


Writes Tom Cowan in the foreward of Frank MacEowen's 2002 book, The Mist-Filled Path: Celtic Wisdom for Exiles, Wanderers, and Seekers . . .

There are reasons to love the mist. . . . The mist is a threshold state in Celtic spirituality. It is sacred. We might even think of mist as a sacrament in the old Catholic sense of that term: an outward sign of an interior state of grace. As Frank MacEowen explains it, mist consciousness is druid consciousness, saint consciousness, shaman consciousness, and Christ consciousness. It is the awareness and perspective of a person standing at the threshold of sacred experience.

. . . Longing too is a holy state for those not afraid, as Frank puts it, to surrender themselves to the great pull that lures us into life, to places we have not yet dreamed of, places where the Great Shaper of Life longs to shape us. [We are invited to] lean into that Divine Power so that we might discover its presence and then honor and celebrate it in simple events of the day.

The Celtic spirit, like the Celtic mind, does not want to get locked into a rigid framework with no way of escape. Like the mist, the spirit wants to shift, rise, disappear, and return. Frank knows this. The rich treasure of Celtic mysticism – pagan, Christian, and postmodern – is not a hoard for dragons to guard, but more like a sail to hoist into the wind to let the elements of God decide direction and destination. With an exciting boldness Frank pulls the old ways out of our many pasts and into the present but always with a sensitivity to what is authentic and appropriate for these new times and places. Nor is he blind to parallel teachings from other cultures and centuries that support, enhance, and make sense of the older Celtic ways. You will find in The Mist-Filled Path the indigenous wisdom of Africa, Asia, and Native America, Sufi and Buddhist teachings, some renegade Catholic ideas, a touch of modern depth psychology, and ideas about social and environmental activism, all seen through a Celtic lens. You can trust this guide as his eye wanders over the vast mystic landscape, and he points out the next steps on our pilgrimage. We are, to use his phrase, "people of the wandering fire," and we need to know the geography of the modern world we wander through if we hope to interact intelligently with others of different beliefs and values.

If you take this book to heart, it will not make you look like a strange remnant of a lost civilization caught in a modern time warp, trying to find your way back into a mythic past. As presented here, Celtic spirituality is not a romanticized artifact or an atavistic throwback to earlier times but a modern ethos for dealing with environmental crises, the poor and homeless, the uncertainties of a hostile and dangerous world, and the mind-numbing, spirit-numbing boredom that our consumer culture generates in so many people.

. . . The Mist-Filled Path is an engaging, lyrically written account of old Celtic ways and a challenging manifesto to live them in the twenty-first century. . . . You will realize, I hope, as I did in reading these pages, the great joy that comes from mistwalking.

– Tom Cowan


See also the previous posts:
Thomas Moore on the Circling of Nature as the Best Way to Find Our Substance
The Divine Masculine Principle
Animal Energies
“We Are Still Mythical”

Opening image: Jonathan Yule.

Monday, December 16, 2019

Sweet Release


Orgasm, which is usually accompanied by ejaculation for a man, is the culminating stage of sexual arousal.

Ejaculation cannot be stopped once it has started, for it is an involuntary process of muscular contraction and release of tension. But a man can control how soon he ejaculates during sex in a variety of ways. He can increase the pressure on his penis by making deeper or harder thrusts during intercourse, or by more vigorous hand movements during masturbation, or by having his partner massage his prostate through the perineum or through the internal wall of the rectum via a finger inserted through the anus.



Another way is to contract the internal muscles which run through from his pelvic bone to his penis, a movement which will both speed up ejaculation and make it more intense. Learning to contract and therefore strengthen these muscles will result in much more intense orgasms and a much more powerful ejaculation.

Once the level of stimulation has reached such a point that the final phase of sexual arousal begins, your body prepares itself for orgasm in all kinds of ways. Your blood pressure goes up, your heart rate rises, your breathing becomes deeper and heavier, and there are involuntary contractions of muscles throughout your body, producing a desire to thrust deeper into your partner.



Immediately prior to ejaculation itself, seminal fluid builds up in the prostate gland. This produces that familiar sense of impending ejaculation – that moment where you just know you are going to ejaculate and nothing will stop it.

Then, at the moment of ejaculation, your testicles are drawn up close to your body, the urinary tract to your bladder closes so that your semen will spurt out of your penis rather than being passed back into your bladder, and the muscular contractions of your ejaculation take place.



These contractions involve the muscles at the base of the penis, the muscles of the penis shaft, the muscles around the anal sphincter, the pubococcygeus muscle, and the muscles of the rectum. They contract about eight times, maybe slightly more or less, at 0.8 second intervals, and as they do so the seminal fluid containing sperm is expelled. These contractions may lead to semen shooting out or just dribbling from the tip of your penis, depending on the condition of the muscles, how long it is since you last ejaculated, and the volume of fluid which has accumulated during the earlier phases of your sexual arousal.

Orgasm is the sensation that accompanies the ejaculatory contractions. It can be an energy flow, a sense of muscular contraction, an overall feeling of well-being.

Source




See also the previous posts:
Penis
Phallus
Soft
Hard
Rethinking the "Normal" Penis (Part I)
Rethinking the "Normal" Penis (Part II)
Not a Weapon or a Mere Tool
Reaching Out
The Body: A Holy Place of Romp and Renewal
The Body's "Holy Hole"
A Source of Great Pleasure
Body and Soul

Images: Subjects and photographers unknown.

Saturday, July 13, 2019

Divine Expressions


Self-love begins when we embrace our identity as divine expressions of humanity. This knowledge guides behavior toward ourselves and how we show up in the world. Love yourself, love who you are, love your journey. Life will respond in kind.

– Phillip Clark

Image: Subject and photographer unknown.

See also the previous posts:
Affirming Our Essential Goodness
The Role of Reevaluation in the Gay Man's Quest for Authenticity
Face Your Darkness
Wrestling With the Angel

Monday, December 31, 2018

Face Your Darkness


The following is written by Brieanna Lewis. I recently came across it on the Facebook group Soul Discovery. It seems like an appropriate piece to share as the old year ebbs and the new year dawns. . . . Wishing all my readers the very best for 2019.

Do not be afraid of the darkest aspects of yourself, for they are means to your survival. You are born from the dark, and when your time on earth is over and you slip back into the comfortable energy of the universe, you will return to the darkness from whence you came.

In order to reach out your hand and lay it upon the brow of humanity, in order to give deeply of yourself and heal the wounds of the world, you must understand the darkness that crouches within.

Will you have the courage to see what it needs, this crying demon within yourself that begs for you to nurture it; that begs for you to help it to dissolve into the wholeness that it desires . . . the wholeness of self?

Sometimes it is necessary to close your eyes and slip into that place that craves manipulation, that place where you lock away your fury, greed and indescribable blood-thirst. Journey to the underworld of your soul because that is where you will be reborn.

In order for us to know light, we must know the dark; in order for us to know pleasure, we must know pain; in order for us to know creation, we must know destruction. In these final dogged days of winter, it is time to cut away the death bramble that clings to the soles of your spirit.

It is time to lance the wound and let the poison run out, so that new skin, new life, can form in its place; tougher this time and well-versed in the negativity that exists in the world, this thicker skin will protect you so that you can go and work your light.

There is no shame in watching the train-wreck that is your shadow. There is no shame in staring at the carnage, unable to look away from the horrors that can exist in a place where you thought you’d never find them.

Look into the fire and find the truth, rise from the ashes of your fear and walk again amongst the living, forever changed and with a sturdier stride. And when you have returned, when you have faced down the monsters of your own making, and when you have risen above the flames of your own self-destruction, then you will be able to lead.

You can be a lantern in the void for those who are following behind you, you can help them to see and to know and to learn. This is where you become the light; this is when you begin to shine.

But for now, let those black waves consume you. Let them topple you over; let them pull you down into the depths of yourself because you will surface.

Just when you think that you can’t handle the pressure or the isolation, just when you think that you have filled to your capacity and that you will burst, you will break free and that first breath will taste so sweet – as if you had never breathed before at all.'

~ Brieanna Lewis



See also the previous posts:
For the New Year
Thomas Moore on the Circling of Nature as the Best Way to Find Our Substance
The Role of Reevaluation in the Gay Man's Quest for Authenticity
Wrestling With the Angel
Affirming Our Essential Goodness

Images: Abdiel Jacobsen, a principal dancer with the Martha Graham Dance Company. (Photographed by Ken Browar and Deborah Ory of the NYC Dance Project.)

Friday, December 28, 2018

“Downtown Heaven”


In response to the posting of the image at left to the Facebook group Queer Artists, one member of the group wrote: "One famous and very handsome American writer who I was lucky to know and who was an admirer of men’s beauty, called this particular area “downtown heaven.” Each time I’m lucky to visit that area I always remember his words of appreciation."

I too appreciate and enjoy my forays into this area of another man's bodily terrain, and always strive to make it a "heavenly" experience for both of us. There is something special indeed about both exploring and pleasuring another man's cock, balls, and hole, and surrendering one's own cock, balls, and hole to another.

The images I share today celebrate all of this. Enjoy!












See also the previous posts:
The Body: A Holy Place of Romp and Renewal
The Body's "Holy Hole"
Buddies

Images: Subjects and photographers unknown.