Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Tan Lines

Image: Subjects and photographer unknown.

Sunday, December 21, 2025

A Time of Descent and Rest

~ Artwork by Jane Keay

The winter solstice time is no longer celebrated as it once was, with the understanding that this is a period of descent and rest, of going within our homes, within ourselves and taking in all that we have been through, all that has passed in this full year which is coming to a close. Like nature and the animal kingdom around us, this time of hibernation is so necessary for our tired limbs, our burdened minds.

Our modern culture teaches avoidance at a max at this time – alcohol, lights, shopping, overworking, overspending, comfort food and consumerism.

And yet the natural tug to go inwards as nearly all creatures are doing is strong, and the weather so bitter that people are left feeling that winter is hard, because for those of us without burning fires and big festive families, it can be lonely and isolating.

Whereas in actual fact, winter is kind; she points us in her quiet soft way towards our inner self, towards this annual time of peace and reflection, embracing the darkness and forgiving, accepting and loving, embracing goodbye to the past year.

“Winter takes away the distractions, the buzz, and presents us with the perfect time to rest and withdraw into a womb like love, bringing fire and light to our hearth.”

. . . And then, just around the corner, the new year will begin again. And like a seed planted deep in the earth, we will all rise once again with renewed energy to dance in the sunlight.

Life is a gift.

Happy winter to you all.



See also the previous posts:
• Winter Solstice
• Let the Spiral Turn and Turn
• Winter Solstice Blessing
• Honoring the Darkness While Remembering the Light
• Happy Winter Solstice
• Light-Bearer
• Sol Invictus
• The Return of the Sun
• Winter Hare

Image: Jane Keay.

Sunday, December 14, 2025

The Mopper

See also the previous posts:
• Out of a Barrel
• Duo
• Trickster
• Mirror Dancer
• Afternoon Light
• Saaxiib Qurux Badan
• Rainbow Dancer

Image: Subject and photographer unknown.

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Between a Lover and a Beloved

It is lovely
for there to be total informality
between a lover and a beloved

All these formalities
are for strangers

The only rule is this

Everything is forbidden
except for love

~ Rumi
From Radical Love: Teachings from
the Islamic Mystical Tradition

Translated and edited by Omid Safi
Yale University Press, 2018
p. 199


See also the previous posts:
• The Sacred Phallas
• Mindful Lovemaking
• Reciprocal Lovemaking
• Joyful Lovemaking
• Reflections
• Spiritual Phallicism
• The Body: A Holy Place of Romp and Renewal
• The Divine Masculine Principle
• Sweet Offering
• Body and Soul

Images: Subjects and photographers unknown.

Thursday, December 4, 2025